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Looks like I'm on my own
#1
Today I decided to cut off contact from my parents completely. Sick of their lack of understanding despite everything I tell them about my life. When I try to make a decision about my life they're always working against me and tells me they will stop caring for me if I do something they don't agree on, even if it only concerns me.

Earlier this week I decided it's time to take control of my own economy cause I believe it's the correct first step towards being independent. My parents obviously disagree and thinks I'm gonna gamble my entire savings account away, while I tell them the biggest danger is actually buying stuff online. It's like I'm talking to a fucking wall no matter what I say. I know that if I can't work out life on my own I will collapse in the long run and probably get locked up for life for either crime or mental instability. I feel like this kind of life is some sort of abuse. At least knowingly leaving a handicapped person to himself is pretty gross if you ask me.

The favors I require from my parents due to excessive pain and movement restriction due to said pain is store trips and washing my clothes (They wash them once a month). Usually only 2-3 sets of clothes at the time because of how often they wash them for me.

The main problem I'm having with my parents is how much energy they leech away from me due to disagreeing with what I say. I mean, they disagree with me taking a step towards being independent when it's what they want. It's absurd. They seriously have no trust of my insights from my personal life, which is what this is all about.

I give up receiving help from my parents as of this moment as I'm being drained more energy from them than I receive, at least I believe so. If I'm going to manage anything on my own right now I'll have to go on painkillers all day long-term, which I have previously used for over a year straight, but only for sleeping. I will ignore any phone call, and if they even try to show up at my front door I will call the police if they don't leave. I'm seriously disgusted with the lack of trust from my parents. I hope I don't collapse from all the trips/work I will have to do on my own from now on, wish me luck. <3

Also, I wish everyone else on this forum luck with their personal lives. I've read quite a bit despite not replying usually. I think this is a great place to share these kinds of sensitive information without being ashamed or anything. <3
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#2
Coming to this decision couldn't have been very easy. It's great that you can be open about this, and nothing to be ashamed of. I hope everything works out for you.
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#3
Actually, it was very easy to make that decision once the thought struck me. First and foremost I need to tell the person managing my money that I want to manage it myself. I hope that's not too much of a painful process, or in the worst case that they could refuse.
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Good luck, and I hope it turns out well for you in the end.
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yeah, I'm about to leave for my 4 hour bus trip. Painkillers not doing much atm despite taking extra, so I'll probably be grunting and making awkward sounds at the bus. Will be great :D
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(2019-07-17 09:25:27)IcyMind Wrote: yeah, I'm about to leave for my 4 hour bus trip. Painkillers not doing much atm despite taking extra, so I'll probably be grunting and making awkward sounds at the bus. Will be great Big Grin

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#7
Well, Jesus,
that's quite a big decision ;_;

I hope this works out for you fellow acid(er?) xD



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#8
I admire your determination and courage. I hope things turn out alright. I don't know your financial situation but maybe you can hire someone to do those things you needed your parents for
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(2019-07-17 22:02:44)Tebbe Wrote:
(2019-07-17 09:25:27)IcyMind Wrote: yeah, I'm about to leave for my 4 hour bus trip. Painkillers not doing much atm despite taking extra, so I'll probably be grunting and making awkward sounds at the bus. Will be great Big Grin

where are you moving?

I just needed to travel really far to make a meeting regarding my economy (I had someone controlling my economy for me). Some guy(s) burned down the local "NAV" building here, so that's why I needed to travel a bit to reach their temporary office.
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#10
When I read about situations like this I always have the same thought: your parents really DO care about you and want the best for you, they’re just refusing to think that what’s best for you is anything other than what they decide.

I totally respect your decision to start living independently from your parents help/support. I think that’s an excellent step to not just assert yourself, but to create some space between you. I encourage you to try and develop a more positive, healthy relationship with them in this time, because no matter how difficult things may be between you, ultimately working together will be better than working against each other, or not at all.
edit: just a tip/clarification, but developing a positive relationship shouldn't mean you give up your independence!

All the best, and I truly hope this works out well for you!

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(2019-07-18 17:23:00)IcyMind Wrote:
(2019-07-17 22:02:44)Tebbe Wrote:
(2019-07-17 09:25:27)IcyMind Wrote: yeah, I'm about to leave for my 4 hour bus trip. Painkillers not doing much atm despite taking extra, so I'll probably be grunting and making awkward sounds at the bus. Will be great Big Grin

where are you moving?

I just needed to travel really far to make a meeting regarding my economy (I had someone controlling my economy for me). Some guy(s) burned down the local "NAV" building here, so that's why I needed to travel a bit to reach their temporary office.

I see, that's quite a trip for a meeting, isit in Oslo?
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#12
As my dad used to tell me; parents fuck you up.

We all get fucked over by our parents, but don't expect them to be perfect. Everyone is dropped in the deep end when they have a child. They only have their own upbringing as a reference when it comes to raising their own.

You'll be just as bad. Probably..

Anyway yemlo, hope things get better.

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(2019-07-20 12:03:09)Tebbe Wrote:
(2019-07-18 17:23:00)IcyMind Wrote:
(2019-07-17 22:02:44)Tebbe Wrote: where are you moving?

I just needed to travel really far to make a meeting regarding my economy (I had someone controlling my economy for me). Some guy(s) burned down the local "NAV" building here, so that's why I needed to travel a bit to reach their temporary office.

I see, that's quite a trip for a meeting, isit in Oslo?

Close to Lillestrøm. Oslo would only be like 35-45 minutes.
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